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Become the Kind of Leader Everyone WANTS to Follow!

Helping Visionary Leaders Improve Their Character and Communication So They and Their Team Can Thrive Together.

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Become Your Best Self

Strengthen Your Influence

Foster Team Collaboration

People Don’t Leave Jobs, They Leave Other People. And When Followers Stop Following, Leadership Ends.

  • Influence can’t happen when no one is listening
  • No one really listens to anyone they don’t like or trust
  • If your character stinks, you’re not likable or trustworthy
  • It’s hard to get anything done when team members avoid you or tune you out
  • Relational tension damages team dynamic and disrupts productivity
  • As a leader, your dysfunction becomes everyone’s dysfunction

THAT’S WHY I HELP YOU

Gain the Kind of Character and Interpersonal Skills It Takes To Have Real Impact and Lasting Influence

I get it.  You’re tired of not getting the respect you need from either your team or those in leadership above you.  Even if you’re in top leadership, you still have to answer to someone.  Your board, those you serve, your direct reports—they all have to like and trust you before they’ll follow and work with you.

And that’s hard.  Hard because of inability to show up well with others.  Hard because of personality conflicts.  Hard because of your own character flaws that keep sabotaging your personal and working relationships.

That’s where I come in.

I use a proven process to help you gain awareness of your own character issues and deal with them so that you can:

  • show up well,
  • resolve conflict in a mature manner
  • be that leader that everyone wants to work with instead of that one they all want to avoid!

Leverage My Services To

Become Your Best Self; Maximize Your Influence; Foster Team Collaboration

Leadership Coaching

ACCELERATING LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT

I come alongside and support top and mid-level leaders, using strengths-based coaching to help you become the best kind of leader, in character, competence, and chemistry with others. 

Team-Dynamic Coaching

COLLABORATION, COOPERATION, AND HIGH PERFORMANCE

 I take your team through a series of high-participation sessions to establish an environment of mutual trust and respect, among various types of people and cultures.

Career Coaching

 smooth transitions, effective Advancement

I help current and aspiring leaders discover where they best fit and how to get there– using assessments, coaching, interview preparation, resume-writing, and other tools.

"Dr. Tofilon did a great job providing executive coaching for me. She was very conscientious at making sure that I set my overall and intermediate goals. Dr. Tofilon did not force her judgment or opinion in any situation. She would always encourage me to seek my own resolution in any situation because she is guided by the maxim that ‘only a trainee can initiate change and that change belongs only to a trainee.’ She actively listens and genuinely empathizes, while making you dig deeper and deeper."

Max Kohanyuk — Vice President of Business Operations

 DFW Crating and Packaging, Inc

“Julie leverages her years of experience to come alongside you. In a delightful and effortless way, you find yourself breaking through barriers and going to the next level. "

Annie Moon– Senior Vice President

Estee Lauder

 

"Julie’s excellent coaching and heartfelt support fueled my passion, purpose, and commitment. I learned to not only to make SMARTER goals, but achieve them during a time of transition. Cheered on after each step forward, I felt energized and equipped to identify and overcome obstacles, including procrastination and negative self-talk.”

Carole Pye, Elected Official
Hoffman Estates Library Board

"At the bottom of the pit, I met Julie. She helped me begin the long climb out! She loves pastors, is a very gentle soul, and has this way about her which helps guide and direct with intention without feeling like pressure.”

Sarah Fravel

Lead Pastor/church planter

 

 

“As a newcomer to coaching, I appreciated Dr. Julie helping me understand the coaching process and how to work together to maximize its impact.  Her way of examining the challenges that I was facing and helping me identify and review solutions to them worked well for me. My biggest gains and focus areas included improving delegation, creating stronger accountability within my team, and driving greater collaboration within my own team as well as with other teams. Dr Julie was well-equipped to help me address these areas and make improvements in my leadership style.”

Donald Dilmore

Director of Investment Accounting

BlackRock

Here's How To

Become the kind of leader everyone WANTS to follow

1. Schedule a Free Consultation

I’ll tune in to your aspirations and help you strategize the best way to develop your leadership effectiveness

2. Choose A Coaching Plan

Together we’ll decide the type and length of your coaching package, for yourself or your team

3. Reach Your Goals

There’s nothing like being able to say “I did it!”  Celebrate each time you meet each goal, reach the next level, and set your sights on the next, best, goal YOU set!

Communicate Well to Lead Well

10-Step Field Map to Real Communication

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10-Step Field Map to Real Communication

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